Domestic violence continues to be a growing epidemic in our country. It affects individuals in every community regardless of age, economic status, sexual orientation, gender, race, religion or nationality. It can result in physical injury, psychological trauma and even death. It repeats itself through learned behaviors over generations, and its devastating consequences can last a lifetime. Seventy-one percent of male abusers witnessed or experienced domestic violence as a child.
Interval House, the largest domestic violence agency in Connecticut, has a multi-prong approach to treat, educate and prevent domestic violence. It operates a 24-hour hotline, emergency safe house, safety planning and counseling, court advocacy, youth programming, community education and support groups—at no charge to victims in the greater Hartford Area. Last year, 21 individuals in Granby contacted Interval House for help.
The Simsbury-Granby Rotary club members have been long-time supporters of Interval House. Members regularly attend the annual breakfast fundraiser in October. This year Rotary wanted to do something extra and partnered with Farley Mac’s restaurant on Hopmeadow Street on the Granby/Simsbury line. Farley Mac’s, known for its warm atmosphere and delicious comfort food, shared its proceeds from Rotarian diners. The Rotary Club then matched the donation and Tracy James of Simsbury matched the match!
At the recent “Breaking the Cycle to Change the Future” breakfast in Simsbury, a young domestic violence survivor spoke about her experience with a high school boyfriend who abused and threatened her. Seventy-two percent of 13- and 14-year-olds are “dating,” and abusive behavior often begins as early as sixth grade. Sadly, only one-third of abused teens confide in someone about the violence. More than half of parents cannot correctly identify the warning signs of abuse. Interval House is now working with high schools to educate students and to prevent domestic violence.
If you need help or know someone who does, Interval House’s skilled advocates are awaiting your call at 860-838-8467 (English) or 844-831-9200 (Spanish). They can talk through your situation and assist with safety planning, information and referrals. If you cannot make a phone call, you can text 888-774-2900 for help.
If you would like to be more active in our community, consider joining the Rotary Club. Visit us at info@simsburygranby.org And please stop by the welcoming atmosphere at Farley Mac’s for a drink, burger or salad, and thank them for supporting those who need our help!
Submitted by Karen Young